Using Problems to Rise Above

On December 14, 2018December 14, 2018 By thinkcarebelieveIn Inspirational, Thought ProvokingLeave a comment

The problems in our lives. We would prefer they not show up in our lives right now. We would prefer to have a happy day without something happening that makes us feel a little bit of dread and intrudes on our smooth, happy workflow and our joy. Those big or little problems that keep popping up and just won’t go away.

If we are willing to be totally honest and ask ourselves what thing or things pop up and disrupt our flow of passion, what things linger in the background of our heads that disturb our joy? Without victim shaming or invalidating anyone’s experiences, I propose that we loosen our grip on the reasons these problems are foremost in our minds or hover in the backs of them as we try to go about our day, just for the purpose of looking at it in a way we may not have considered. By using our conscious mind to redefine these things, we may just be able to effect the kind of change that always seemed elusive.

We’ve all been hearing that we should try to stay in the present moment. The now is where our power lies to choose the path with which we will resonate. That thing we don’t like may have shown up at this moment in our lives for the purpose of giving us clarity on what we don’t want in our lives. Seeing an example right in front of our faces, illuminated through contrast, helps us clearly determine what we do prefer.

By reframing those things as examples of what we do not prefer in our lives, instead of sticky problems needing a solution, constructively changes the energy of it to be that of a simple tool. Converting the illusion of “this menacing thing” hanging over our heads or taking up space in the backs of our minds into helpful tools is something we are allowed to do, and opens the door to allow things we do prefer into our lives. We get a beneficial effect from this thing by using it to be more clear about what we do prefer in our lives.

If we announce something like, “Okay, this thing has shown up in my life just so that I can clearly decide what it is that I do prefer, so I can declare it, and bring more of what I do prefer into my life.” By staying in this state instead of fear, anxiety, confusion or anger, we only get a beneficial experience from it. Since we cannot perceive or experience what we are not in the vibration of, we actually shift our vibration to what we prefer, so that we can experience more of what we do prefer.

If we are drawn to conflict, being curious and fascinated by it, we will draw more of it to our life. If we carry a feeling of love, by focusing on doing things that we feel passionate about and bring us joy, then we bring more love into our lives. We can treat things that we don’t like in a way that we can use them in a way that we do prefer, instead of trying to run from them, in order to get the beneficial effect from them.

We can also lighten up on ourselves. Beliefs keep better things away, so we can attract new things that are more relevant for us naturally, if we loosen our beliefs and judgments. When we lighten up, our vibration rises. Experiencing more joy in our lives happens naturally as our vibration rises. As our conscious vibration rises high enough, we can look back at that thing and it will actually appear non-sensical or illogical to us. A clear indicator that we have used that tool well. That thing that used to be a thing in our lives, now looks a bit silly.

We are fundamentally worthy of good things simply because we exist. It is up to us to decide how we define those things that happen to us in our lives. The saying, “God doesn’t always give us what we want, but rather what we need” comes to mind. On the surface, those things may look different than we expected. We have to stop judging them and understand they are there for a reason, as simple tools, so we can use them that way.

Many Truths

On September 4, 2018 By thinkcarebelieveIn Thought ProvokingLeave a comment

While working in my garden this summer and processing, packing, freezing, drying, canning and eating all its yummy gifts, I’ve been getting many expanding insights, they just didn’t make it into this blog. Some nights I was up until the wee hours of the morning canning zucchini or tomato sauce, listening to inspirational channelings or thought provoking interviews. Life happened and insights moved on, but I just didn’t feel ready to post anything in this blog until I had done some more deep internal work. The last few months I’ve been going inward to learn. By following my higher-self direction, messages from my teaching Angels, and support from my dear spirit team. I want to thank my family for being themselves, my loving and supportive husband for putting up with his pondering wife, my friends Dottie and Sara Kujawa for challenging me to dig deep, rise higher and view things differently, always always with love. Like many others on the ascending path, this summer’s Lions Gate cosmic energy waves brought numerous personal growth opportunities on mental, emotional, spiritual and multidimensional levels while my body went through challenges adjusting and recalibrating to the higher frequencies.

So I found myself faced with the need to dive deep within myself and be utterly honest. I did it with love and patience. I’m sure there were moments my Guides and Spirit team wished they had ear plugs. So I stepped back from all distractions and excess outside noise and searched and reprocessed and listened and cleared. This brave and amazing process has allowed me to grow in my own consciousness. It has allowed me to be grounded in what is essentially the authentic me.

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Note: This is a compilation of my insights from this summer. Much of it builds on previous blog posts and my husband had a suggestion that I provide links back to them. The links are in blue. I hope it’s not too distracting, but they will go more in depth and will hopefully make things more useful.

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I’ve been writing much about forgiveness and letting go because during this shift, any heavy emotional denseness will rise to the surface. Our reaction to it is our indicator whether there is more work to be done. We can be puzzled why it’s there, we can feel the pain again and justify old stuff, or we can feel nothing. Experiences really are neutral, it is our judgment of whether it was good or bad that creates the pain. It is up to us to either bless it and let it go on its way into the light, or work through anything that needs to be worked through first. It really is up to us. But I will say this one thing: Forgiving and letting go is our golden key to our own personal ascension.

For one experience, there are many truths, from many different perspectives. When something happens, we have a choice in how to respond. We can get frustrated and angry, we can laugh about it, we can feel empathy and compassion, or we can feel nothing and just observe. In each one of those choices, we are choosing a particular truth. Each truth has a different vibrational level. When we make the choice to align ourselves with a higher vibrational truth, it creates a higher vibrational reality.

Everything in our reality has a frequency. Everything vibrates and everything interacts with eachother on an energetic level. Our thoughts and emotions affect everything around us. As we raise in consciousness, we are affecting our environment more rapidly. The closer we can manage to get to love, gratitude and acceptance, and try to hold it there, our environment will respond. If we have a meltdown, we can bet money something will break in the near future. In order to create a happier life, we need to start by minding the frequency we give off and the power of intention from our consciousness.

Doing deep down clearing work is not easy and it does take courage. If we take in all the chaos, other people’s pain, stress, work and financial challenges, family issues and ascension symptoms… some of us may feel that we just don’t want to be here anymore. We have to be careful here, we can actually manifest a quick exit. In the throws of this kind of emotional turmoil and fed-upness, one of the millions of thoughts that flies through is wondering why we (the individual we) are here. Bringing us to that thought of wondering is turmoil’s purpose, because if we can quiet down enough to follow it, it leads us to wonder who we truly are. And if we can just stick with that, it can open the door to beginning to remember who we are as an individual consciousness.

If we can put aside the basket of beliefs we acquired in our indoctrination into this life, we can clear what is clouding out the reason we are here. Society, churches, schools, parents, families, government all paint the picture for us and tell us what is reality. We arrived into this picture. Churches tell us who God is and where he lives and how he will judge us and what happens to us if we don’t follow. Does anyone else remember as a child wondering if stepping on an ant would send us to hell?

There is a long line of people on the other side waiting to come in. They can’t wait to choose a life and parents and families and environments and circumstances that will all play out to put enough pressure on them to squeeze out who they are at their very core. We come here in the physical because we need and want (!) to feel that intense pressure to change ourselves at the core. On the other side it is all love and light. There is so much acceptance that it is nearly impossible to change ourselves at the core. It happens much faster here as we gather experience to learn and grow. We have such a unique and precious opportunity for evolution here, there are those in heaven who are jealous of US being here on Earth at this time.

If we have the chance to look back over all our lives, we can see that we have basically done it all. We have been and done the worst along with the best. We have murdered and stolen, we have been on the giving and the receiving end, we have been selfless, and… we have gotten ourselves into situations of which there was no way out. Over so many lives, we have been all things.

I remember being young and telling myself not to forget something. It was something about myself or about my true home before I came here. To remember who I really am. It became more difficult as I aged and as trauma began to cloud my memory. I am able to remember a feeling though. It is there, imprinted on my memory and it gets stronger the more I forgive, and let go, and rise above. I am Love.

Any time we come into a physical life, and have experiences here behind the veil, we take the risk of forgetting what we came here to learn and we can sometimes get caught up in something that makes more mess in our lives. If we can choose a higher vibrational truth, a higher vibrational reality, if we are patient and hang in there, the clouds begin to reveal themselves as the illusion they, in truth, are.

When it comes down to it, it is our own feeling about experiences that creates karma. If we can forgive and accept ourselves first and foremost, even before forgiving others, then we can work through what there is to work through more effectively. We are taught in churches to forgive others, but we really do need to forgive ourselves first and accept the value of the experience to clear our karma and move on to a brighter life.

It occurs to me how important it is, when we get to this level of the game, to collect up all the pieces of ourselves that we spun off in this life. Every time we experienced a trauma, a little fragment of us went off to somewhere safe. When we had a wish to become something else, a small part went off to explore that possibility. When we clear our spider webs with forgiveness and get to the point of understanding and acceptance that we are pure consciousness, those pieces become magnetized back into us. It is no longer a problem accepting that I could have the capability to be a murderer or an abuser, because I realize that I have the capability to be all things- and I have been all things.

When we realize that we came back to clear and evolve our core self, we realize that Earth and the illusion of separation is a brilliant and effective way to work with only the part of us that needs working on or that we feel needs to be worked on. If we can get to a point that we forgive ourselves and accept ourselves wholly, then karma becomes liberated and released. Karma released becomes light codes to level us up.

It is when we feel resistance or strong emotion to something happening in front of us that we need to accept that we have that capability within us, because we have the capability to be all things. Then we are released from gut reacting and we become the Observer. That is the key to mastery. We can say, “Yes, I have the capability to be and do that within me, but do I choose to be and do that in the moment? No.”

Then the experience is transformed to wisdom and we have again remembered who we are.

When It’s Hard to Let Go

On June 23, 2018June 24, 2018 By thinkcarebelieveIn Thought Provoking1 Comment

Changes that suddenly come upon us. Changes that slowly creep up and then whisper in your ear “it’s now or never.” Changes that call us gently and urge our response. Changes that we know are coming, but we put off again and again, knowing that when we can no longer do it, it’s gonna be painful.

How we deal and manage change is all part of our learning and mastery of hearing our inner guidance and choosing how we are going to create next. When we are connected with our inner self, our higher self, and God, our lives become beautiful fluid works of art that enable us to learn about who we are so that we can creatively express it outwardly. Holding onto things, situations and people we love keeps us from moving forward and creating new outwardly expanding expressions.

This summer is going to be all about reflecting on our lives and relationships. Things that are heavy, stagnant or buried within us are going to be brought up in our faces to bring us to aha moments so that they can be finally personally reconciled, so that we can feel “I’m okay with it, I understand it now.” Any heaviness has to be transformed into the fluid, flow of divine energy, without judgment. The process is going to happen whether we are ready or not. The Earth’s vibration is rising and we are rising along with it. Any heaviness may create blockages in our bodies, that may create sudden serious health issues, because our bodies cannot rise and properly adjust or recalibrate to the higher vibration of an energy wave. The heaviness of holding onto pain, blame, guilt, shame, or fear can cause us sudden serious health issues during this time of rising with the new energy.

We are evolving into who we really are as divine beings, and that is Love. Love energy flows and is fluid. It creates beauty with every moment. It breathes in and out and connects us to the All. When we say the simple words “I AM” we align ourselves with the truth of our existence and affirm there is no judgment or fear… so we can just let go… and allow the thing we are letting go be of service for someone else, or be transformed into light, or just do what it will do and we need not know. Usually when we let go there is a gift in it for us to discover.

My husband and I just went through a deeply emotional transition. I began this blog eight years ago when we first embarked on our US travels in an RV. Last week we sold our home on wheels, and yesterday we sold our truck. Now that we put down some roots, live in a house, and work in the garden, travelling by RV just didn’t suit us anymore. It took us four years to be able to do it. For me, it was so hard to say goodbye to that life, but we just had to just do it, just couldn’t hold on any longer. We traded the truck for a hybrid. We plan to travel the New England states and visit our grandkids who just moved to Maine. This will allow us to fill in the last states on our map, the map we used to track the states we have visited, like most RVers do.

So, in letting go of something we loved dearly, even though it was very hard, we opened the door to new life, so that we can create new expressions of who we are, working in partnership with our environment and in the flow of the new energy… and someone else will get to create and express themselves with the things we have released. When we align ourselves with our highest vibrational reality, old energy baggage transforms into flowing creations of new energy experiences. And that is what we came here for… to keep expanding and learn through experience.

The Nuts and Bolts of Overreaction

On March 26, 2018March 27, 2018 By thinkcarebelieveIn Healing & Empowerment, Thought ProvokingLeave a comment

We’ve all been there… having a seemingly innocent interaction, and suddenly someone flares at something or someone, leaving those around scratching their heads. If we could bread down what is happening, we could then understand what is really going on, in order to not be adversely affected, and to help that person heal.

When someone has pain so deeply buried, that they are not even aware it is there, something in the present may spark a subconscious remembrance to that pain and immediately frustration musters and defenses rise. They may not know why. The ego may or may not be involved to fuel the fire. The reaction could be to built up conflict within themselves and may have nothing to do with the present situation at all.

Behind the scenes, deep within that human, is a wounded child with energetic tendrils attached to their own painful experience that has come to the surface in that moment. They may be physically in the present moment but with them is every unresolved conflict from their past. They may be looking at you, but they may be seeing someone or something else that has hurt them deeply. If they are unable to become aware of what is going on, they may need help. Those energetic cords from the painful experience that are escalating their reaction need to be cut, so the past can be cleared, and they can be fully present and able to move forward.

In various posts, I’ve been discussing many ways we can clear our own “baggage.” But that is when we are aware of our stuff, and willing and able to do the work. What do we do when someone is standing in front of us, is visibly volatile, and unable or unwilling to admit that the reason they are seething is because of what is going on inside of them?

A couple things…

If that person is unable to quiet and listen to reason, then we need to realize that at some point in their lives, most probably when young, their tendency toward kindness and caring was forced out of them. Perhaps they were forced into survival mode by a parent under threat of punishment. Perhaps they were bullied and were forced to survive. We can think of any number of abusive circumstances where warmth and compassion were relinquished to aggression in the name of survival. They may be hardened to even care how their behavior affects others, perhaps because if they let themselves see it, a dam would burst and they would be overcome with pain and guilt. Maybe they have been holding up that dam for so long that the fear of it breaking and the flood of emotion engulfing them is enough to avoid seeing the truth of how they are overreacting. Biochemical and neurological imbalances can be influencing their emotions. One thing that silently screams truth is that they are in trouble.
When we speak to them, we need to be in a place of centered calm. If we are feeling one bit defensive, then we need to cut our own cords, and clear the experiences from our past that make us feel anything but love and compassion, so we can be a true voice of healing. If we can speak in a way that reminds them to respect other people’s boundaries, we can also remind them to respect another’s humanity, we may get a foot in the door. Speaking harshly or with anger will not get through. It will only remind them of the abusive system that created their pain. If we quietly show them the unnecessary sharpness or violence of their behavior, without our own anger amplifying their reaction, we may be able to get through, and create an “aha moment” for them. If we confront them with anger, it only reinforces their belief that they need to see the world as unsafe, and further perpetuates their belief that they must fight to stay alive in order to save the little part of themselves that they have left.

If that person is a coworker, friend or family member and we have to be in close proximity to them, we may ask for help from their Higher Self, Guides and Angels to help them cut the cords to their painful experiences so that they can find their stability. We can ask for them to be surrounded with light to aid their clarity and allow them to step out of their pain to claim their personal sovereignty. This only aids the energetic vibration of the whole, as we all proceed with our own personal ascension. It may allow them to heal enough so that they may help others to heal also, from their own personal experience.

Affirmation

I ask for _______ to be surrounded by healing light.

I ask for their Higher Self, their Guides and Angels to help them cut the cords of their pain and fill them with love and clarity.

I believe ____________ will heal and become whole for the highest good of All.

I ask for the Light of the Universe to always accompany them.

If Reality Were Malleable

On March 24, 2018March 24, 2018 By thinkcarebelieveIn Thought ProvokingLeave a comment

The Mandela effect is here to catch our attention. It is a cue to wake us up to new possibilities. It is here to show us that our reality is totally malleable… and we are only limited by our beliefs… or are we?

If one person went onto the hologram deck and created some snow scenery to play around in…

…then the next person came onto that same snow scenery, but thought it looked a bit parochial, so they decided to punch it up a bit, and make it sort of surreal and a little bit spooky.

Then another crewmember comes onto the holodeck and feels that this isn’t to their taste, and felt a little cold and wet, so they give everything a southwest motif.

Well, when a fourth crewmember boards the holodeck, they figure this is all wrong, so they decide to play around with the adjustments and make it look andfeel like a true Charles Dickens Christmas scene.

Then the ship’s Empath comes aboard and she’s been tired from feeling everyone’s complaints lately, and sees all the adjustments in the holodeck’s data history and she decides that everyone needs to experience a rainbow iridescent light-filled snow crystalline experience, so she sets the controls so that everyone will get the rainbow crystal world experience.

Think you’re scratching your head wondering what the moral of the story is… how do you think the little red bird hiding in one of the bushes is feeling.

Saying No to Pessimism and Fueling Manifestation

On March 19, 2018September 4, 2018 By thinkcarebelieveIn Inspirational, Thought Provoking1 Comment

My Dad was a patient man. I remember helping him plant two trees in our backyard when I was in my teens. He explained to me that the two trees were to be a certain distance apart. The reason for that specific distance was that when they would someday grow big enough, he was going to hang a hammock between them. Being surprised by my Dad was a frequent occurrence, but I was impressed with my Dad’s faith and optimism then. There was no doubt in his mind that hammock would one day be there, in fact we often talked about how he would rest there in the shade of those trees, after cutting the grass, a cold drink in his hand.

When I woke up this morning, I pulled an Angel card to get an idea of my theme for the day. The message was basically “don’t be pessimistic.” I kind of went hmmmm to myself because I wasn’t anticipating feeling that way today. Okay, so on I go with my day.

Since it was one of our first warm spring days, I decided to remove one of the stumps in our newly purchased lot next door. I set a goal that that stump would be out by the end of the day. It was quite rotted, and it did move a little, but the main root was still firm in the ground. Even when I dug out the dirt around the stump and sawed through as far as I could with my little battery operated reciprocating saw, I could not get it to snap off.

Some days I might have growled at this point, but I decided to just continue and cut some wedges into the trunk so I could reach the center. But the saw battery chose that moment to die. Some days I might have become disheartened, and I did think of how this job had become harder than I had hoped. Then the thought occurred to me to try to talk to the stump and ask it to work with me. I asked for permission to snap off that stump and said that I would return the stump to the land and bury it there to replenish the soil. I asked the stump and the land and my spirit team to help me, because I was getting quite tired and would like to get onto the next phase of the project so I could start planting. I tried to break the stump again, but it wouldn’t budge, so I walked away to put the battery on charge and just left the possibilities open.

After running some errands, I grabbed the battery and went out to do battle, in an attempt to accomplish my goal for the day. When the saw blade touched the stump, I noticed the stump moved differently. So I pushed on the stump again, and I heard a crack. I was surprised that I wasn’t surprised. What a relief to finally separate the top of that stump, and I immediately had the feeling that it went so much easier than it would have, had I gotten pissed at it.

IMG_1475-Edit I immediately gave thanks for the help in making the job easier. I was astounded at the love and support for something small and silly like this, but boy was I grateful. I mean, tears in my eyes grateful and it was mostly to my Dad. I kept my promise to return the stump to the earth, to replenish it. It was then that I remembered my morning message for the day. Had I chosen or let myself become pessimistic, I probably would have hijacked and blocked the flow of energy that facilitated the stump breaking. By having faith, almost in a optimistic playful way, like my Dad taught me, I was able to manifest an easier, almost magical way to accomplish the goal… and it was so much easier, and took much less energy.

Those two trees my Dad and I planted in his backyard did indeed grow large and strong enough to hang that hammock. It took about 10 or so years, and I had young children by then. I got to explain to them how Grandpa and I planted those trees in their places for the purpose of hanging the hammock in which they were giggling and swinging. I told them how we nurtured those trees over the years and made sure they had enough water when there was a drought, and kept the weeds from growing too close to their trunks. We planted them with the faith that those trees would grow strong and that one day we would indeed hang that hammock, and used playful optimism to fuel the manifestation into reality.

Party Gifts

On March 17, 2018March 17, 2018 By thinkcarebelieveIn Inspirational, Thought ProvokingLeave a comment

When my boys were in their teens, before cellphones, we used to have to have a way of keeping track of one another… In the event of failed check-ins, we just knew. We knew where each was, and when they needed help. Sometimes it failed, but usually it was spot on. We could just pinpoint where one of us was, by feel.

This is just an example of something we all have innate within us, that has gotten lazy with the use of technology. But technology is not a bad thing, it has connected us exponentially better, across our world, and allowed information to fly at lightening speed, having instant concrete validation thus not needing to place as much trust in our senses, causing some of our inherent abilities to become rusty.

One of my sons just moved to a house about a mile away from us. He brings his doggie over to play and frequently comes to dinner. I usually send a text when dinner is about ready. Yesterday, without any communication since morning, he walked in the door just as dinner was ready. I smiled to myself, because in this new energy, we still got it… and it’s only going to get better.

As our evolution accelerates, and more of us are waking up every day, those abilities are strengthening. Numerous synchronicities are clamoring for our attention and beckoning us to tune in. Excitement is building and anticipation for something good on our horizon is palpable. It is all causing us to pause, and quiet and watch more closely.

The message I am getting very strongly is to look inward first. The more we connect inside, the more happens outside. By strengthening our inner connection, more light can be held in our bodies, and anchored through us. The building anticipation of something is actually manifesting the something that is coming. So, keep it up. Keep up our vibration and keep looking inward, listening for clues and feeling for nudges. Several months ago, I had a message of someone riding up on a bicycle asking me when I was going to show up. Then a month ago I heard a message to “find the party.” Yesterday, my friend, Sara Kujawa, gave a message from her son, ADam, “when you show up, show up with bells on.” So, I’m going to just put some puzzle pieces together …

“Find the party, and when you show up, show up with bells on!”

Not sure if this is just for me, but I have the feeling it is for all of us, because what is happening personally with each of us, is also simultaneously happening to others. Each individual is having a unique experience, like a flower opening, but… together, we are all making a beautiful bouquet– absolutely splendant in variety of shape and color. The absolute beauty of all of our uniqueness is making a magical magnificent whole.

Honor your own personal growth and transformation, have the inside experience first.
Then connect outward using your feelers and find the party.
Then, show up with bells on and look around and to the heavens with anticipation and excitement.

Releasing Ourselves from Punishment

On March 16, 2018March 18, 2018 By thinkcarebelieveIn Healing & Empowerment, Inspirational, Thought Provoking3 Comments

Current new energies are bringing us startling clarity and revelations. At the current moment, I’m grasping that “The Event” is about changes within ourselves. As if a hazy gray cloud is lifting from within and around us. And, it feels like everyone is going through their own personal transformation. Not pretty, but the most deeply buried issues are rearing their ugly heads in unexpected ways. We have the choice to find a way to make peace and allow it to release itself with Love (if we are lucky enough to recognize what issues are being triggered,) or to continue in more pain and discomfort. That choice is making itself abundantly clear, as the clarity dial gets turned up notch by notch with each new energy wave.

This is an exciting time and we all came here for this. We came to go through the transition from trudging through a sleepy life, tediously learning lessons, to graduating and claiming our individual sovereignty as divine beings. What we have been punishing ourselves for is a question only each of us can answer for ourselves. The search for that answer is our release to freedom and a new level of clarity. What messages did we internalize in our younger days on this Earth that caused us to punish ourselves? What feelings and emotions caused us to turn that around and punish others?

Right now, the Earth is being showered with Love from God. It is a Love free from judgment, and simply a divine energy that is telling us we are Loved and we ARE Love. The judgment part is coming from ourselves. Can we possibly Love ourselves enough to step into unconditional Love? That means, whatever experiences, thoughts, emotions, situations, memories or pain lurking deep within has permission to evaporate, that empty space filling up with the expanding Light inside of us. The stories we have been playing out simply put, have gotten old and we are fast outgrowing them.

Can we allow the process to continue, without exactly knowing what is on the other side? Can we make the choice to venture into the Light coming from God over continuing as we have in more pain and cloudiness?

If we each go inside, there are answers waiting for us. We each have a team that loves us waiting to assist us in our personal transition. Can we release ourselves from the punishment and take a step forward… untethering ourselves from our painful stories that we are fast outgrowing?

That first step is declaring that we love ourselves no matter what.

Affirmation

I release my painful stories.

I allow the Light of God to clean and fill and bring new clarity.

I ask for assistance of my Higher Self, Guides, Angels and Archangels.

I Love myself no matter what.

I am Loved and I am Love.

I feel that Love.

And so it is.

When We Love Ourselves Unconditionally

On February 27, 2018March 16, 2018 By thinkcarebelieveIn Healing & Empowerment, Inspirational, Thought Provoking1 Comment

One aspect of having challenges in our lives is that we chose those challenges to learn to love ourselves unconditionally. If we can keep that in mind as we go through our experiences, we can perhaps go through them more smoothly, and directly, rather than getting stuck in a side trip to the circle of emotional turmoil. When we love ourselves enough to accept the situation without judgment, we can apply forgiveness right away to others as well as ourselves. This invites the magic of synchronicity in to transform for the highest good of all involved. Loving ourselves unconditionally, with all our foibles, and accepting ourselves as already perfect, we can begin to see others as perfect in themselves too, and be able to love them unconditionally as well.

Dr. Wayne’s daughter, Serena, wrote a blogpost entitled Learning to love myself. In it, she explains, “It was only when I stopped judging myself and tried loving myself that I began to discover that the universe, God, whatever you want to call it, fully supported me in my efforts and I started getting all “green lights” on my path toward discovering just what my dharma was. When I started attempting deep and profound self-love, the kind great parents offer to their children, I started to feel good- I started to find that the right people were showing up at the right places and my life began to feel more on purpose. Since I began the process of self-love and self-acceptance, the right man came into my life. When I started to offer love to myself on the inside, I started to lose the extra weight I was carrying around because I began to realize that I didn’t need food to give me the feeling of being full, I felt full and complete without food or drugs or alcohol.”

All the things we do in a day change when we love ourselves unconditionally. Doing something for ourselves feels different because we are doing it with a renewed love for our own sacred existence. Taking two minutes to thank our body, to remind ourselves how magnificent we are and to just be. Doing for others, and getting no thanks, changes because we are the ones who thank ourselves, and somehow the need for thanks doesn’t seem that important anymore. We do things out of love for ourselves, because we are each a piece of God, and connected by God.

We’ve all known people that seem empty inside, or maybe we have felt that way ourselves. That emptiness is a void of self-love. When we drop the distractions and put down all the games and illusions, we can get down to it and face ourselves in the mirror. We can step back and look at our life as a whole, so far, and then zero in on the individual spark within, that is really and truly… us. We can make that spark of our true essence, which is love, grow. Then we can:

Accept our past
Forgive ourselves
Appreciate our unique appearance
Value our bodies
Be at peace instead of needing to fix
Affirm our amazing journey
Rest is a gift to ourselves
Absolve our insecurities
Free ourselves of judgement
See the beauty of life… and feel gratitude

When we love ourselves we naturally treat others with respect and kindness because we recognize that the same spark of God that is within us, is within them too. And then, somehow, what we are feeling and doing on the inside, becomes reflected back to us on the outside. When we have aligned the inside of ourselves with love, the Universe sends love to us and we can manifest and create more easily than ever before… or just be… peacefully.

In his blogpost The Love Equation, Dr. Wayne wrote, “To begin to change what’s inside you, become more loving toward yourself. In your thoughts, cultivate an inner voice and attitude that’s 100 percent on your team. Imagine an inner self that only supports and loves you. You might schedule a certain time of day when that’s the only thought that you allow yourself to pay attention to. Gradually this loving attitude will extend to other people. You’ll begin to receive this energy back and ultimately be able to send thoughts of love and joy to everyone and everything in your world.”

When we love ourselves unconditionally, we’re not being selfish or vain. When we have our own full love, we have no need to go out of balance like that. We see things differently and so clearly, and life just becomes more simple. Seeing things differently is a miraculous gift. Because amazing truths exist in the vastness beyond ourselves, and truly loving ourselves is the key that opens the door.

Find The Party

On February 20, 2018March 4, 2018 By thinkcarebelieveIn Inspirational, Thought ProvokingLeave a comment

Whatever tomorrow brings, we can create a best case scenario by continuing to let go of our own old yucky issues as they pop up, forgiving others in the now and trying not to judge. If we can keep clearing out unhappy and painful thoughts, feelings and memories, we can rise with the high vibration of any event that comes. Our health improves when we form new habits of canceling negative thoughts about worse case scenarios as they arise and change them to open positive thoughts with love behind them. Gradually, our thoughts become tame and help us create a better reality. Once we get ourselves healed, then we can assist others…. and they will need it.

More humans are waking up every day. Many aren’t aware what these new stirrings are. It can be quite alarming for one to have an incredibly vivid dream where their Guide introduces themselves and takes them on an experience that blows their mind. Or unsettling to suddenly see rainbow colored energy in the sky or aura energy around people as they walk around. They may be wondering if they are having a nervous breakdown or losing their mind and there is nobody in their circle of friends they can talk to about it for fear they’d be called crazy.

Those of us well established on an awakening path, whether we often feel lost and confused or not, have chosen to awaken early to reassure newly awakened individuals that there is much more to being alive than the physical aspect of being human. We can tell them it is going to be okay, and that they are experiencing the uncovering of a truth that they are a divine being made of love. A truth they can go within, open their hearts, and let in.

We can encourage them to go within, relax, and let go of all thoughts and distractions. We can remind them to be patient while their minds slowly cease its chatter, or quiets to a less intrusive level, then to stay there. As the new warm and wonderful feeling slowly rises, we can suggest that they simply rest in it, for that is their true nature and the center of their being. We can assure them that daily visits with their true self inside will help with their well-being during this process of ascension with the Earth. We can reassure them that they are never alone and have a wonderful support team they can call upon for help. They can ask questions and then listen for the answers. In this way, we can pull others through the shock of their own sudden awakening so that they can resume their lives, newly awakened and aware.

What do I believe is going to happen during the event? I don’t know. I believe we are going to feel God, and realize that God has always been here, within us. I think we may see something incredible in the sky. I’m not sure everyone will experience it. I’m not sure if it will occur within a day or stretch over a month, or months. But, I want to pose the question… is it possible that the event is something we each experience individually and personally, but simultaneously alongside others?

One thing I do know is that each of us has our own unique awakening path. One that takes us to a place where we know without a doubt deep within our hearts that we are love and we are willing and able to demonstrate love in action in our daily lives. With that all powerful truth, we can easily create the absolutely best case scenario possible. One that melts our hearts and makes us so sweetly glad to be human on this beautiful planet during this incredible time.

On a personal note, the other night, my Higher Self told me to “find the party.” So, in order to bring to us a best case scenario experience that gives us joy and makes us want to celebrate, using the Law of Attraction, we need to have an attitude of celebration, in the now moment. We need to search the ether for the energy of those who are already celebrating, because they know they have worked and sacrificed so hard for this and waited a very long time for this moment to come. They are so happy for the Earth making her rise in vibration and are grateful that she is taking us with her, gently and with love.

They are celebrating the best case scenario, and you and I are with them, and we have found the party.