Yep, sex. The function of sex in human evolution is changing. The primary role of sex has always been to procreate and further our species. Vast complex systems of hormones and brain function to bring male and female together in order to fill that purpose. The pleasure generated can have many benefits to health and relationships. It can be a precious gift given to another, regardless of gender. Sex, however, has also been used in power struggles between the sexes. Used as a weapon, sex can leave scars on our human experience, and these need to be healed. Sexuality can also be tied to the ego, so much so that one’s entire Earthly identity can be enmeshed with it.
But what I want to discuss here in this space is the role of sex as it pertains to our human spiritual evolution.
Since our true nature is love, sharing love energies with another can raise the frequency of our vibration. But it is not only the sex act that can get our energy humming, it can just be intimate touch with total trust, openness and honesty. Since our energy fields extend 3-5 feet out from our bodies, just sharing space and blending energy with another with the intention of emitting love and compassion can be of benefit to both. Gentle, slow mindful touching and massage can bring about enormous healing energy. Whether it leads to lovemaking is up to the participants. 😉 This is the way of the evolved human.
But since our spiritual evolution involves facing our shadows and letting go of pain, sex has more often times been used as a distraction. We would much rather feel the high and excitement of blending with another instead of getting quiet and facing our internal pain. It’s totally human and understandable that we would rather feel something good than face something painful.
As energy waves from the Central Sun hit us on the Earth, we are being stimulated in ways that our issues are coming to the surface to be cleared and let go (this is the ascension, a gradual rising of the Earth’s vibration and we are going on the ride with her.) We need to be as clear as possible or the discomfort will escalate. It’s like, we are on a backpacking trip and we are attached to the things we are carrying in backpacks, but we will have to drop the inappropriate items, because as we ascend the trail, we will not be able to take more than necessary. Less baggage is better.
Dr. Wayne said there is always a lesson residing in pain. Find the lesson. Find the forgiveness that is there for you. Find the silver lining and stick with that. It will expand and in time, new wisdom will surface. When we are caught up in the pain, we can’t always see. Forgive yourself and love yourself. Remember, before we can share sexual love with another, we need to try to be whole first. Forgive, accept and love yourself, and just let all the reasons we are not worthy of that love, go. Because we are part of God, we are worthy… and we are perfect. Believe it or not, our true nature is Love, and everything else is an illusion.
